Believe In Yourself

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Believe In Yourself

May mga tao na sobrang dali lang sakanila maging confident at magkaroon ng paniniwala sa sarili nila pero ako as a shy person, it wasn’t easy. Hindi ko alam kung kaya ba ko walang bilib sa sarili ko kasi mahiyain ako? Nahawa nalang ba? Growing up sobrang wala kong bilib sa sarili, palaging hindi ko kaya yung naiisip ko. Sometimes, it makes me do nothing, it makes me not to do my best. Sobrang takot ako sa failure and yet wala kong ginagawa to succeed because I didn’t believe in myself.

But experiencing that I learn a lot in myself, others and I understand myself even better. Hindi naman siguro mawawala yung pagkakaroon ng mababang confidence specially as a teenager na hindi pa ganun ka matured ang understanding sa mga bagay bagay. As I get older dun ko narealize how believing in yourself affects our life. It takes courage to do things, to succeed at something. At kung hindi ka naniniwala sa sarili then wala ka ring courage to succeed. Kaya sobrang importante na naniniwala tayo sa sarili natin kasi if you don’t believe in yourself who would believe in you?

One thing that believing in myself gave me is freedom. When I started to believe in myself mas napapakita ko na ang kakayanan ko, mas kaya ko nang sabihin ang mga opinion ko without worrying how to say it perfectly and I enjoy my success even better kasi hindi na ko nag woworry about my mistakes na madalas nagiging dahilan kung bakit hindi ko naeenjoy ang success ko. You need to believe in yourself because that’s the only thing you can do to be able to say ‘you did your best’.


Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong. -1 Corinthians 16:13

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